{"id":4593,"date":"2026-06-30T11:11:23","date_gmt":"2026-06-30T16:11:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/?p=4593"},"modified":"2026-06-30T11:12:48","modified_gmt":"2026-06-30T16:12:48","slug":"not-your-grandmothers-ladies-aid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/2026\/06\/30\/not-your-grandmothers-ladies-aid\/","title":{"rendered":"Not Your Grandmother&#8217;s &#8220;Ladies Aid&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6fbd0479d589e037a3b685b514597a16 wp-block-paragraph\">by Joanne Herset, WMF Recording Secretary<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a9bb6c053cbdb7297ebbdb8f8b3ae8e8 wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s women\u2019s ministry happening in Montana, but it doesn\u2019t look like your grandmother&#8217;s \u201cLadies Aid\u201d. Here in my church, Faith Free Lutheran, spiritual growth and discipleship happens in small groups. There are several groups that are specifically for women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-8b6642f61aa5deeb9a3e48e467008041 wp-block-paragraph\">I have been the facilitator for a group called \u201cSingle Ladies of a Certain Age.\u201d One Sunday, as I was sitting in the church sanctuary, waiting for the service to begin, I started to notice all the \u201cmature\u201d single ladies that were seated around the room. Being a widow myself, I guess I am more aware of others in my situation. I didn\u2019t limit my list to just widows. I included any single ladies of whatever circumstance &#8211; widows, divorcees, never married. That morning I counted 12, and when I checked the church records I actually had 18 names I could include.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"540\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-1024x540.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4597\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-1024x540.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-300x158.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-768x405.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-1536x810.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-2048x1080.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-100x53.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-846x446.jpg 846w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/20260425_1251352-1184x625.jpg 1184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6d3fecaaf945ff1b1c3c26f63bfd41e1 wp-block-paragraph\">There wasn\u2019t a small group that was targeted for this group, and as far as I knew, most of these women weren\u2019t part of a small group. So God laid it on my heart to do something!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-b109db71bebdfffbc690e614ea1d523f wp-block-paragraph\">Once a month I invite these ladies to my home for a meal, conversation, time in God\u2019s Word and prayer. The meal is usually a \u201cplanned\u201d potluck, sometimes a theme. We\u2019ve had a green potluck for Saint Patrick\u2019s day, sack lunches for \u201cback to school\u201d in September, a Super Bowl party theme in February. We try to make it fun!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-995ff8b0ddb7c6f9ce02d1ad82e6e3ae wp-block-paragraph\">Along with the potluck meal, I give a topic for Bible discussion. For our Super Bowl themed get together, the assignment was \u201cif you were the coach or captain of a team, what Scripture would you share to inspire and\/or encourage them.\u201d This was a great time for discussion and encouragement for all of us. We spent several months studying the book of Philippians, exploring the topic of joy. After time in God\u2019s Word, we spend time praying for one another and the concerns we may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d685f3da2fc320a74cff3e6752d565ab wp-block-paragraph\">This group has been meeting for about a year and a half now. There is a core group of about 6-8 that regularly attend. Others come as they are able. Last winter, there was a woman in the congregation who lost her husband after an extended illness. I was hesitant to extend an invitation to the group immediately (I thought I should give her a little time to process her grief), but one of the other ladies who attends reached out to her and she joined us within a month of losing her husband, and now comes regularly.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/14151.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/14151-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4599\" style=\"width:709px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/14151-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/14151-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/14151-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/14151-100x133.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/14151-846x1128.jpg 846w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/14151-1184x1579.jpg 1184w, https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/14151.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-eaa72ee0df9b707be4220f6370dc1cd7 wp-block-paragraph\">While this group isn\u2019t your traditional WMF group, I have shared with them information about the work of WMF, and had the opportunity to take them to the District Rally that was held at Stillwater Free Lutheran (rural Kalispell) last April (2025). The ladies attending this group are growing in \u201cgrace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ\u201d (2 Peter 3:18) and as members of<br>the body of Christ (1 Corinthians 12:12).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>It is a huge blessing to be part of a group such as this &#8212; single women coming together sharing life&#8217;s trials and joys, caring for each other, while focusing on God&#8217;s Word and prayer, not to mention tasty treats too!! -Susan B.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><strong><em>I was invited to this group when I was new to Faith church and had recently moved to Kalispell. This has been so important for me in so many ways. This has been a safe place to belong as a single woman where I am able to share with others who have had similar trials and circumstances. I am so grateful for this wonderful group of women that I can call friends, where I feel accepted and cared for. -Bev V.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-ffaf0e769a01b12beb89a48b6b2802d2 wp-block-paragraph\"><br>God is working in and through these ladies. Now, when I look around the sanctuary on a Sunday morning, I see this group of ladies sitting together, worshipping together. I hear that through the week they check on one another, doing things together, caring and bearing one another burdens (Galatians 6:2).<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5638f7ef85d531d0854279520c8e661d wp-block-paragraph\">Additionally, one of our deaconesses started a Saturday morning brunch group. She invited me to share about what WMF is and what it does. Since January a group of 6-8 ladies is meeting monthly for fellowship and Bible study. They chose to use the current WMF Bible Study, \u201cI Believe Who God Is\u201d. Each month the WMF project is presented and an offering is taken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-ed999f387195cfe450f60e5bd7b47f0c wp-block-paragraph\">Women\u2019s ministry is happening. It may not follow the \u201cnorm\u201d for a traditional WMF group, but they all have the heart to grow in the knowledge of God\u2019s word and to see His kingdom grow.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Joanne Herset, WMF Recording Secretary There\u2019s women\u2019s ministry happening in Montana, but it doesn\u2019t look like your grandmother&#8217;s \u201cLadies Aid\u201d. Here in my church, Faith Free Lutheran, spiritual growth and discipleship happens in small groups. There are several groups that are specifically for women. I have been the facilitator for a group called \u201cSingle Ladies of a Certain Age.\u201d &#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/2026\/06\/30\/not-your-grandmothers-ladies-aid\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4593","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","no-post-thumbnail"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4593"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4593\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4593"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4593"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aflc.org\/women\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}